Spiritiual Direction as Sacred Listening
(Emmaus’ Encounter with Awakening)
The story of the road to Emmaus in Luke 24 unfolds as a journey carried by overwhelming grief, honest confusion, and unexpected awakening. Two followers of Jesus, shaken by the events of his crucifixion, walk together trying to make sense of what has happened. Their hopes had been undone, and their bodies were carrying what their words could not yet explain. What they thought they understood about the Messiah no longer aligned with their lived experience. So they walk... talking, processing, wondering. It is the kind of conversation that rises out of deep loss and the search for meaning. As they walk, Jesus draws near, though “they were kept from recognizing him.” This part of the story names this hiddenness without fully explaining it. It invites us to reflect: Was God holding recognition until the right moment? Or was this tenderness, allowing them to walk before they were ready to see? Was Jesus choosing to remain unnoticed so their understanding could be reshaped? Or did their grief make it difficult to see clearly? The story leaves space for mystery, reminding us that recognition is often something revealed rather than achieved... an unveiling opened by God. Jesus begins by listening. “What are you discussing together as you walk along?” They stop, faces downcast. Cleopas responds with surprise and sorrow: “Are you the only one visiting Jerusalem who does not know the things that have happened?” His words carry the weight of someone trying to hold together a collapsing world. Jesus does not correct them, soothe them, or reveal who he is. Instead, he asks, “What things?”... an invitation for them to speak their truth in their own way... without editing, without spiritual polish, without needing to be right. So they tell the whole story. Their confusion. Their disappointment. Their fading hope. They speak of Jesus in the past tense, as grief often teaches us to do. Loss can reshape the way we speak, the way we remember, turning what was once alive into memory. “He was a prophet, powerful in word and deed”... as though everything they trusted about God had slipped away. And still, he remains with them. He listens without rushing their hearts. This encounter shows us that God often meets us in our questions before offering clarity. On the road to Emmaus, sacred listening begins with presence rather than explanation. Jesus walks with them long before he interprets anything. And when he finally does speak, he reframes their understanding not to shame their slowness, but to open their eyes to a deeper truth already at work. Even then, they do not recognize him, yet something shifts inside. Later they would say, “Were not our hearts burning within us while he talked with us on the road…?” What stirred them was not information alone, but the experience of being accompanied... walking together, breaking bread, sharing real conversation. Recognition comes not through argument or instruction, but through relationship and hospitality: “He was made known to them in the breaking of the bread.” In this way, Emmaus becomes a meaningful illustration of spiritual direction... a space where God draws near in the midst of our unrecognizable moments, listens us into greater clarity, and helps uncover truth through shared presence and genuine connection. It reminds us that awakening often comes as we walk, reflect, question, and are faithfully accompanied along the way.


My Guiding Framework

Rooted Lineage
This path begins with remembering where we come from, the lived stories of ancestors who carried Christ’s light through injustice, exile, and the wilderness of life. Their endurance reminds us that liberation is not only possible but inherited: a sacred strength flowing through generations, calling us to live with courage, dignity, and hope (Lisa Sharon Harper).

Spiritual Formation as Liberating Faith
We follow the God who leads us from bondage into freedom... freedom in our hearts, our relationships, and our communities. This faith listens for the Spirit’s guidance and welcomes transformation rooted in justice, wisdom, and love. Here, formation is not striving but growing into God’s healing story… restoring what is broken, renewing belonging, and shaping us into people who reflect Divine freedom (Harriett Tubman, Barbara Holmes, Lerita Coleman Brown, The Desert Fathers & Mothers of African/early Middle Eastern traditions, St. Ignatian (Jesuits) & Hush Harbors).

Embodied Awareness
Our bodies hold memory, wisdom, and traces of both pain and grace. Through gentle attention and spiritual practice, we notice what our bodies are telling us and invite God’s love to bring understanding, integration, and freedom. In this space, we learn to inhabit a sense of belonging... with God, with creation, and with one another (Sheila Wise Rowe, Chichi Agoran & Resmaa Menekem).

Communal Contemplation as Sacred Belonging
Healing deepens in community. In shared moments... silence, song, movement, lament, or rest... we step into rhythms that open us to God and to each other. These practices nurture shalom: a sacred harmony that renews our humanity, strengthens resilience, and assures us that we never journey alone (Barbara Holmes & Howard Thurman).

Spiritual Direction Session

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A Moment to Pause
Give yourself a moment to pause, breathe, and quietly arrive where you are.
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Your Journey, Your Voice
This is your space to share what’s on your heart. When it feels helpful, I may offer meaningful questions to invite deeper reflection and awareness.
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Moving with Intention
We take time to notice what nourishes and encourages... whether that’s reclaiming pieces of your story or recognizing small movements of growth. This is an unhurried space to be seen, heard, and supported.
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Reflect
We pause to reflect on what emerged and how it might guide your next steps. We close in the way that feels most comfortable for you, giving room for what unfolded to guide you.
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After the Session
If something stays with you or sparks curiosity, I can offer a few resources. They’re shared lightly and meant only for what feels helpful to you.
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Session Support
Healing and growth are for everyone. Each 55-minute session is offered on a sliding scale of $35–$50. Scheduling is easy through my Calendly link, and I’m happy to answer any questions... here to support you along the way.
Pacing Your Journey
I invite you to discover a rhythm for your sessions that works well for your life. Some meet once a month, others twice, depending on the season you’re in. If you’re new to spiritual direction, even a few sessions can help you notice what truly resonates. I’m here to walk alongside you and adjust as we go.
A SPIRITUAL DIRECTOR IS SOMEONE WHO...
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Is guided by the Holy Spirit, in the same spirit as those who, from the earliest gatherings, sought to listen together for God’s direction (Acts 13:2–3). The director helps you attend to how the Spirit is moving and speaking in your life.
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Is a Trained Listener, offering a compassionate presence as you reflect on your experiences, questions, and joys. Together, you discern what is unfolding in your daily life and how you are invited to respond (Jn 14:26; 1 Kings 19:11–13).
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Does Not Seek to Fix or Diagnose, but creates space for God’s healing and direction to emerge, even amid life’s struggles. Spiritual direction does not separate us from our challenges; it helps us notice God’s presence and invitation within them.
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Asks Meaningful, Compassionate Questions, opening pathways of reflection and discernment that mirror the invitational questions of Jesus: “What are you looking for?” (Jn 1:38) or Where do you want to be made well? (Jn 5:6).
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Embodies Hospitality and Confidentiality, offering a sacred and trustworthy space for you to bring your whole self, your hopes, doubts, and desires, before God (Rom 12:9–13; Heb 13:2).
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Guides You in Spiritual Practices, such as prayer, silence, meditation, and reflection that nurture your relationship with God and strengthen your attentiveness to the Spirit’s work.
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Invites You into Deeper Union with God, helping you attune your heart to God’s presence in both stillness and activity, and to participate in the Spirit’s work of transformation within you and through you (2 Cor 3:17–18).
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Encourages Spiritual Growth Rooted in Love, helping you live with greater alignment to the teaching that “where your treasure is, there your heart will be also” (Matt 6:21). As Henri Nouwen wrote, “The farther the outward journey takes you, the deeper the inward journey must be.”
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Celebrates the Transforming Work of Grace, walking with you as you notice how God’s love restores and renews your life, just as the early Church rejoiced together in the ongoing movement of the Holy Spirit (Acts 2:42–47).
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Continues a Long Lineage of Spiritual Companionship (trained and continues to be practiced in the art of Spiritual Direction), following the pattern of faithful guides throughout history who have helped others discern God’s guidance and live into their purpose (Prov 11:14; Is 30:21).
“A SPIRITUAL DIRECTOR is one who helps another recognize and follow the inspirations of grace in their life, in order to arrive at the end
to which God is leading them.”—Thomas Merton
Scriptural Anchors: Psalm 139 | Jn 10:27 | Jn 14:26 | Jn 15:26 | Acts 1:8 | Rom 8:26 | Rom 12 | 1 Thess 5:11 | 2 Timothy 2:2





