Sacred Listening
The Road to Emmaus
The story of the road to Emmaus unfolds as a quiet journey of overwhelming grief, confusion, and slow awakening. Two followers of Jesus, deeply shaken by the events of his crucifixion, walk together on the road, trying to make sense of all that has happened. Their hopes had been dashed. What they thought they knew about the Messiah no longer fit their experience. And so they talk, process, and wonder... perhaps even question everything they once believed.
As they walk, Jesus draws near... though “they were kept from recognizing him” (Luke 24:16). Was it God’s action of veiling their eyes for a time? Was it Jesus himself choosing to walk hidden until the moment was right? Or was it simply the weight of their grief that blurred their sight? The story does not resolve the “how", but it does invite us into the possibility that recognition itself is a grace, revealed in God’s method and timing.
Jesus listens first. “What are you discussing together as you walk along?” (Luke 24:17). They stop, faces downcast. Cleopas and the other traveler begin to pour out their confusion and heartbreak. Jesus receives their words without correction or haste. Even when they describe him in the past tense... “He was a prophet, powerful in word and deed…” (Luke 24:19)... he remains with them, listening.
This sacred encounter reminds us that God often meets us in our questions, not just our answers. On the road to Emmaus, sacred listening begins with presence, not proclamation. Jesus walks with them in their sorrow before offering insight. And when he does speak, he gently reframes their understanding... not to shame them for missing the truth, but to open their hearts to a deeper reality already unfolding in their midst.
They still do not recognize him, yet something begins to shift. Later they would say, “Were not our hearts burning within us while he talked with us on the road…?” (Luke 24:32). It is not simply knowledge that brings clarity, but shared embodied presence... walking together, breaking bread, listening deeply. Recognition finally comes not through instruction alone, but through intimacy and hospitality... “He was made known to them in the breaking of the bread” (Luke 24:35).
In Spiritual Direction, the road to Emmaus invites us to honor the slow journeys... the places where grief, confusion, or transition blur our vision. We are not always quick to recognize where God is walking with us. Sacred listening creates space for others to speak freely, to wrestle with disappointment, to name hopes that feel lost. Like Jesus, we do not rush to reveal or fix. We companion others as they move through mystery toward recognition, trusting that grace often unfolds along the way.
Sacred listening on the road to Emmaus reminds us that transformation is rarely instant. It emerges in conversation, hospitality, and the ordinary moments where God is already near... even if we do not yet see clearly. And in time, as hearts awaken and eyes open, we come to recognize that we were never walking alone.
Cain’s Encounter with God’s Invitation
Learning from Hagar and the God Who Sees
Nebuchadnezzar’s Encounter with God
Learning From the Samaritan Woman at the Well


My Approach

Rooted Lineage
This way begins with remembering where we come from... the lived stories of ancestors who carried the light of Christ through injustice, wilderness, and exile. Their endurance teaches that liberation is not only possible but inherited; a sacred strength passed down through generations that calls us to live with courage, dignity, and hope (Lisa Sharon Harper).

Liberating Faith & Restorative Formation
We follow the God who leads us from bondage into freedom... within our hearts and within our communities. This faith listens for the Spirit’s guidance and opens us to transformation rooted in justice, discernment, and love. Here formation is not striving, but becoming aligned with God’s healing story... restoring relationships and shaping us in the likeness of Divine freedom. (Harriett Tubman, Barbara Holmes, & Hush Harbors).

Embodied Awareness
Our bodies carry memory, wisdom, and the imprints of pain and grace. Through compassionate somatic and spiritual practices, we attend to what the body reveals and welcome Divine love to bring integration and release. Here we grow into sacred belonging with God and one another (Sheila Wise Rowe, Chichi Agoran & Resmaa Menekem).

Communal Contemplation & Sacred Belonging
Healing deepens in community. In shared presence... silence, song, movement, lament, or rest... we enter rhythms that bind us to one another and to God. These communal practices create shalom: a sacred harmony that restores our humanity, nourishes resilience, and reminds us that we do not walk alone (Barbara Holmes & Howard Thurman).

Spiritual Direction Session

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A Moment to Pause
We begin with a moment of stillness, allowing ourselves to settle and be fully present. Some prefer just a few seconds, while others take more time. It’s about finding space to breathe and become aware of what is unfolding in the moment.
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Your Journey, Your Voice
This is your time to share what’s on your heart... whether it’s adversity, celebration, or moments when God has felt near, distant, or even absent. As you share, there is an offering for meaningful questions that encourage what you might be invited into.
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Moving with Intention
We’ll explore ways to move with compassion and care on your journey. Whether it’s healing, reclaiming your story, or noticing small steps of growth, I’ll support you in listening for what encourages and sustains you. There’s no hurry... only space to notice, receive, and be carried with care.
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Reflect
We take time to reflect together on what surfaced and how it may guide you in the days ahead. Some prefer quiet; others choose prayer. We’ll close in whichever way feels most comfortable, creating space to allow what unfolds to guide moving forward.
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After the Session
If something from our conversation resonates with you and you'd like to explore it further, I’m happy to share resources... such as books, articles, or practices... that might support your journey. These are simply offered as an invitation, should they feel helpful to you.
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Coordinating Support
Healing and growth should be accessible and valued by all. Each 55-minute session is offered on a sliding scale of $40 to $60. Scheduling is simple through my Calendly link. If you have any questions, please reach out... I’m here to support you every step of the way.
Finding Your Rhythm
I invite you to find a rhythm for your sessions that feels both meaningful and sustainable. Many find that meeting once a month works well, while others choose to meet twice a month depending on their season of life. If you’re new to spiritual direction, you may find it helpful to engage over a few sessions and see how it unfolds. Often, giving it time allows for a deeper experience before discerning whether to continue. I’m here to accompany you in that process, making adjustments along the way as needed.
A SPIRITUAL DIRECTOR IS SOMEONE WHO...
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Is guided by the Holy Spirit, in the same spirit as those who, from the earliest gatherings, sought to listen together for God’s direction (Acts 13:2–3). The director helps you attend to how the Spirit is moving and speaking in your life.
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Is a Trained Listener, offering a compassionate presence as you reflect on your experiences, questions, and joys. Together, you discern what is unfolding in your daily life and how you are invited to respond (Jn 14:26; 1 Kings 19:11–13).
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Does Not Seek to Fix or Diagnose, but creates space for God’s healing and direction to emerge, even amid life’s struggles. Spiritual direction does not separate us from our challenges; it helps us notice God’s presence and invitation within them.
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Asks Meaningful, Compassionate Questions, opening pathways of reflection and discernment that mirror the invitational questions of Jesus: “What are you looking for?” (Jn 1:38) or Where do you want to be made well? (Jn 5:6).
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Embodies Hospitality and Confidentiality, offering a sacred and trustworthy space for you to bring your whole self, your hopes, doubts, and desires, before God (Rom 12:9–13; Heb 13:2).
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Guides You in Spiritual Practices, such as prayer, silence, meditation, and reflection that nurture your relationship with God and strengthen your attentiveness to the Spirit’s work.
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Invites You into Deeper Union with God, helping you attune your heart to God’s presence in both stillness and activity, and to participate in the Spirit’s work of transformation within you and through you (2 Cor 3:17–18).
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Encourages Spiritual Growth Rooted in Love, helping you live with greater alignment to the teaching that “where your treasure is, there your heart will be also” (Matt 6:21). As Henri Nouwen wrote, “The farther the outward journey takes you, the deeper the inward journey must be.”
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Celebrates the Transforming Work of Grace, walking with you as you notice how God’s love restores and renews your life, just as the early Church rejoiced together in the ongoing movement of the Holy Spirit (Acts 2:42–47).
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Continues a Long Lineage of Spiritual Companionship (trained and continues to be practiced in the art of Spiritual Direction), following the pattern of faithful guides throughout history who have helped others discern God’s guidance and live into their purpose (Prov 11:14; Is 30:21).
“A SPIRITUAL DIRECTOR is one who helps another recognize and follow the inspirations of grace in their life, in order to arrive at the end
to which God is leading them.”—Thomas Merton
Scriptural Anchors: Psalm 139 | Jn 10:27 | Jn 14:26 | Jn 15:26 | Acts 1:8 | Rom 8:26 | Rom 12 | 1 Thess 5:11 | 2 Timothy 2:2





